Gaon Gali (Engagement, Chhoti Milni, Roka)
🕒 After the boy and girl like each other and the relationship is confirmed verbally.
What is this about? (History)
The Gaon Gali or Engagement ceremony formally solidifies the relationship after both families have agreed.
Things to Buy / Requirements
- Sweets and fruits (from girl's side)
- Silver coin and money cover (Shagun for the groom)
- Money cover for meeting family members (Milni/Juwari)
- Silver coins or money cover (Shagun for the bride from boy's side)
- Saree, dress, jewelry, and cash for the daughter-in-law (if marriage is delayed)
Step-by-Step Instructions
1
The girl's family visits the boy's house or meets at an outside place.
2
The girl's family gives sweets, fruits, and a silver coin with a money cover to the groom.
3
The girl's family offers money covers to the groom's parents and elder members.
4
The boy's parents give a silver coin and a money cover to their future daughter-in-law.
5
The relationship is finalized and the couple is considered engaged.