Myra (Rice Filling)
🕒 After the sister invites the brother (Bhat Nuantana), the brother arrives at the sister's house.
What is this about? (History)
The Myra or Bhat Bharna is a grand ceremony where the maternal uncle (Mama) brings gifts, clothing, and blessings for his sister's family during the wedding.
Things to Buy / Requirements
- 5 kg Rice
- 5 kg Jaggery
- Moli (sacred thread)
- Aarti Thali (prepared in advance)
- Pearl necklace (Ikli or Duldi)
- Silver coin
- Cushion (Gaddi Pata)
- Sarees, dresses, and jewelry for gifts
- Jaggery rice and Badi Ki Sabzi for serving
Step-by-Step Instructions
1
The brother arrives at his sister's place with his family and musical band (Gaza-Baja).
2
Place 5 kg of jaggery on top of 5 kg of rice in a plate and tie it with Moli.
3
The sister, along with her family, goes to the door to welcome her brother, placing a cushion for him to stand on.
4
The maid applies a tilak to the maternal uncle, and he gifts her a saree.
5
The bride/groom applies a tilak to their maternal uncle, who in return gives them a dress.
6
The sisters and daughters of the family apply tilak to the brother, and he gifts them sarees.
7
The brother and his family are seated and fed jaggery rice and Badi Ki Sabzi.
8
The brother presents the Myra, giving sarees, jewelry, and other items to his sister and her family according to his wish.